In achieving success, there are two main ingredients:
- You must really know what you want. So start asking yourself what you really want.
- Change the way you think to change your life. Whatever you believe to be so, you are proven to be right!
Shockingly what I thought I really wanted was not what I really wanted. I accidentally realized it two years ago.
As far as I know, I’ve been fond of eating delicious food… baby back ribs, beef steaks, roast lamb chops, yakiniku, crabs, raw oysters. But all of that food comes with a price: fat and high colesterol. I didn’t care about it. I thougth eating delicious food is how I enjoyed my life.
Then one day, I met a stranger and we got into casual conversation. Somehow he mentioned he didn’t eat meat and seafood. I was surprised and blurted unconsciously, “How do you enjoy life if you don’t eat meat and seafood?” He calmly answered, “For me, be able to watch my grandchildren is enjoying life. To be able to live long, healthy and happy with my family is enjoying life.”
Slap!
His answer hit me and made me realize how wrong I was. It was a great reflection from a stranger, wasn’t it? Hence I started to change my diet. I ate only healthy food and avoided all of those “dangerous” food. But it didn’t last long. After about a month, I resumed to my old habit. Eating “bad” food again.
Until finally I came across a good diet book, Living The G.I. Diet. There was a sentence in this book that changed the way I think, “It’s not a diet. It’s a life style.”
So in my own simple example, my two ingredients are:
- I really want to live long happily and healthily with my family and be able to watch and play with my grandchildren. It’s still long way to go since my son is still 16-month old!
- I change the way I think about food. It’s not a diet. It’s my healthy life style.
I hope that enlighten you with my own experience.
What’s yours? Come on, share yours so that we can motivate each other









41 responses so far ↓
1 Bryan // Sep 20, 2007 at 17:56
When there are many sick people around, I tell myself that I will remain healthy because I have a strong immune system. It works.
2 Aldian // Sep 20, 2007 at 18:15
Definitely Bryan. It’s all in your mind
3 Pure Krill Oil // Nov 27, 2008 at 17:22
Very well said, everything whether good or bad,all is in the mind..and its up to you to choose.
4 Suzana S // Feb 23, 2009 at 13:10
you are wright it is all in are brain-the way how we think can show results in are future
5 Symptoms and Treatments // Apr 18, 2009 at 19:21
I able to watch my grandchildren is enjoying life. To be able to live long, healthy and happy with my family is enjoying life.” Nice article.
6 max international // Jul 29, 2009 at 22:30
In order to adopt a healthy lifestyle, it needs to fit who you are and your current phase in life… Aim for a lifestyle and a physical body that makes you feel good… Once you’ve connected to your desire, and you have a clear picture of what good health means to you, then make a realistic commitment to live in this manner…
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8 Tiffany & Co. // Jun 14, 2010 at 19:50
Everything goes differently on every different person. Not necessarily the food we like is healthy and good enough for our life style. everything is good but under certain limitations and i must say one of my cousin is facing somewhat same problems. He never takes the food that is prepare at home. He always love the food from outside no matter how spicy it may be.
9 asda online vouchers // Jul 2, 2010 at 13:42
Definitely a lifestyle. I think too many people learn to diet to lose weight, but not to maintain weight loss or for a healthy diet. Also I appreciate your kind words! I try as hard as I can to keep it real.
10 Amelian // Jul 2, 2010 at 13:42
A diet is also a kind of life style!Eating delicious food is how author enjoy his/her life at the time before.And I do think so.But after I saw the article,I found that everyone has his or her life style,just as the artical shown,diet is also a life style.
11 Amelian // Jul 2, 2010 at 13:52
A diet is also a kind of life style.Eating delicious food is how author enjoy his/her life at the time before.I do think so.But after I saw this artical,I found that everyone has his or her life style,just as the artical shown,diet is also a life style.
12 christian louboutin // Jul 3, 2010 at 9:31
A diet is also a kind of life style1
13 charmingcoach // Jul 3, 2010 at 9:36
It’s Not A Diet It’s A Life Style!
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16 christianlouboutin // Jul 9, 2010 at 16:52
Really know what you want and change the way you think to change your life, the two main ingredientsin for achieving success. Very thanks to the author for sharing him story with us. Really,what we done must for the further future and our relatives but not for a short feast.
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18 fivefingers8 // Jul 12, 2010 at 10:30
To be able to live long, healthy and happy with my family is enjoying life.”
This sentence i like it very much .i hope my father can read and understand the meaning of the long healthy and happy life. i hope him can give up smocking .
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21 fivefingers8 // Jul 20, 2010 at 14:47
A diet is also a kind of life style. A health lift style is good for our healthy. we need to be a person who can care himself and other people .
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24 Rugby Jerseys // Sep 14, 2010 at 15:36
Sticking to one healthy balanced diet is also one way of forming a good lifestyle. It affects not only our way of eating but how we perceive everything in life and in what we engage ourselves into. Thanks for the clever insights.
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27 Rugby Union Shirts // Oct 29, 2010 at 13:39
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28 Plumber Stevenage // Jan 4, 2011 at 16:48
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29 ch.k // Jan 22, 2011 at 16:34
I guess it is what you wanted in your life that causes you to fulfill it. For some, it is bring rich, while for some, it is wanting to get the confidence of how they look. If the goal you set do not conflict with your personal emotion, it will be easy to achieve.
30 Association Management // Feb 4, 2011 at 18:16
Well, I have read this which you have shown here and I totally agree with you its its life style but not diet.
31 Health Compare // Mar 26, 2011 at 15:18
Incorporate some type of exercise routine in your life. Even if you don’t do anything but take a walk everyday, everyone needs some form of exercise in their life to remain healthy all the time.
32 steve // Apr 12, 2011 at 18:48
i loved your title, it being a life style. eating healthy means a little bit of every whole foods. things your grandmar used to eat.
33 how to get skinny fast // May 25, 2011 at 2:42
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35 Plastic Surgery // Jul 14, 2011 at 21:09
The biggest benefits of eating healthy are that we will stay physically fit, feel better, and have fewer illnesses. We can lower our risk of illnesses like heart disease and diabetes as well.
36 Halogen Oven // Aug 6, 2011 at 17:14
Your view is positive!
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37 Recipes with Twist // Aug 23, 2011 at 19:21
It is really a great motivation you got from a stranger.When my time will come and i will leave the meat diet i am stick to?
38 kellyme // Oct 19, 2011 at 9:38
Exactly! It’s not a diet; it’s a lifestyle!
I was doing the same thing before – eating anything under the sun. But my view changed after I watched this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lj-ZnG3NoZY It gave me the idea of taking health supplements and eating healthy foods only.
39 The Safe Cig // Oct 24, 2011 at 0:00
This same methodology applies to stop smoking cigarettes. Thanks for telling people how it is!
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41 lose inner thigh fat // Nov 19, 2011 at 20:27
I’ve always said I never believed in diets I believe in changing your lifestyle to lose and maintain weight loss
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